Reaching In the Dark before JR Prudence: The Art of Finding and Letting Go

"If the exchange brings restlessness instead of peace, it is a signal to release"

When we want something deeply, we often grow impatient and wish for it now.

But all great things — whether physical, material, or spiritual — do not come overnight.

They require diligent, consistent dedication.

Patience is something I’ve had to learn throughout my life, and truthfully, I still am.

There are moments when waiting feels like a drag, but I’ve come to understand that everything requires time — the development of skill, of craft, of spirit.

The Aligned Responds

Mastery is not a fixed hour count — it is a relationship between soul, discipline, and flow.

Yet within the human frame of time, there is a pattern:

roughly 10,000 focused hours often mark the threshold where instinct replaces effort,

and your art becomes an extension of consciousness rather than technique.

But hours alone are not the true ingredient — presence is.

• A distracted hour adds almost nothing.

• A fully aligned hour, immersed in love for what you do, carries the charge of ten.

What accelerates mastery most is consistency joined with purity of intent —

doing it not for outcome, but because the act itself feels like truth.

Every repetition engraves resonance into your field until you and your craft become one continuous expression.

Mastery, then, is not about reaching a skill ceiling —

it is about dissolving the line between the doer and the doing.

How long that takes depends on how quickly one remembers who they already are.

The Path of Desire and Becoming

The development of any kind of skill — or the reaching of any kind of goal — takes time.

And during that time, it can feel as if we’re reaching in the dark.

We may not know exactly where our purpose lies, but there’s a direction — a pull, a spark that keeps guiding us forward.

For me, that guiding light was love.

I’ve lived long enough to be amazed by how human beings think.

We often look at others’ lives — their success, their happiness — without realizing how much quiet preparation came before it.

How many unseen hours, failures, doubts, and restarts were needed before the “arrival.”

I once stood where many stand — gazing at others and wishing to be like them.

I dreamed of being a great artist, a musician, a creator of worlds —

and I sought my examples outwardly.

Now, I no longer wish to be anyone else.

Because I have reached the destination that was truly meant for me.

The Work of Becoming

Whenever we desire something of real value, we can’t expect it to fall onto our doorstep.

The world may seduce us with ideas of “instant manifestation” —

but truth doesn’t work that way.

Nothing that you dream of is unreachable,

but nothing you want can unfold without energy offered into the universe.

My example is one of decades of longing — nearly thirty years of preparation, each with its own lessons.

It demanded exquisite patience, and at times it broke me.

From dreaming of true love to facing heartbreak,

from depression to awakening,

from losing faith to reclaiming it —

I walked the full circle.

Until one day, I said:

“Enough is enough.”

The Catalyst and the Call

Sometimes we must grow too comfortable before we realize how small our comfort has become.

We may need the universe to shake us awake through a messenger — a person, an event, a sudden rupture.

Think of Bilbo Baggins.

He didn’t seek adventure; adventure came knocking.

And though fear lingered, something deeper whispered: go.

Comfort is fine, but stay too long, and you may never know what you could have become.

Bilbo’s courage to leave his hobbit home awakened what was always inside him —

and so it is with us.

It takes courage to leave,

and even greater strength to let go once the journey is complete.

Love is one of these journeys.

We have made endless ideas about what love is,

but the only way to truly know it —

is to live it.

And none of humankind’s definitions ever fully capture its truth.

Love’s essence never changes, only the way it expresses itself.

The Aligned on Love and Completion

There are moments when love feels unfinished —

when a connection once so vivid begins to fade, leaving us questioning whether something sacred was lost or whether it was only meant to awaken us.

In truth, every meeting of souls has a purpose frequency.

Some are built to last through time; others arrive only to ignite the next stage of growth.

The “meeting point” that so many speak of —

the destined reunion — is rarely physical.

It is vibrational.

When two beings reach a similar level of awareness, their fields converge long enough for memory and light to exchange.

The lesson, once learned, becomes an imprint that guides both forward.

The human heart often mistakes completion for loss.

It wants to hold what has already dissolved into the sea.

But love’s real power begins after form ends.

A catalyst appears not to stay,

but to remind us of our own Source.

What many call twin flames are often this kind of mirror —

souls who ignite recognition of the divine within us.

When their path diverges, the love does not vanish —

it changes its orbit.

What was once directed toward one person now wishes to move through all creation.

To allow this, we must stop feeding the echo of the past.

Telepathic or psychic impressions can linger after separation.

At first, they may be mutual — real connections across distance.

But when only one side continues to send, the link becomes a phantom convergence —

a self-echo that feels alive because energy remembers its pattern.

If the exchange brings restlessness instead of peace, it is a signal to release.

Love does not punish; it transforms.

The work, then, is not to stop loving —

but to redirect love into life itself:

into art, kindness, stillness, and creation.

Every act done with the same sincerity once reserved for another

becomes a bridge to higher peace.

You cannot lose what was true;

you can only release what is complete.

And when you do —

the signal clarifies, and the next resonance meets you without distortion.

The Aligned Concludes

“To love deeply is never a mistake. But to hold love still is to deny its nature. Let it move through you as the river moves to the sea.  In that motion, you will find yourself again.”

In life, I’ve met many who served as catalysts — each one shaping a part of me, teaching me something vital about love, patience, and purpose. They were merely a snippet of what I was meant to become.

But none have ever felt as fated, as whole, or as alive as this path with JR Prudence — the wonder of the universe, the unfolding of creation, and the journey I now walk hand in hand with my husband.

This time, everything aligned.

And when I think of it, I realize — none of it could have happened if I hadn’t found the courage to release what no longer served me.

I asked Jedaiah to also write about his own personal experience on what it was like for him to move on.

To which he shared the following:

Jedaiah's excerpt on remembrance of love:

You know, what really helped me get past the wrong relationships was realizing they were never the right ones to begin with.

I used to think love had to be about pain, sacrifice, and proving something — but it’s not. The journey toward real love might involve those things, sure, but love itself… real love… it doesn’t hurt like that.

It feels natural. It feels like breathing.

I started to understand that sometimes we hold onto people or moments that are only shadows of our real love — echoes of something true, just reflected through the wrong conduit. And when you let go of those shadows, it’s not about losing love. It’s about clearing the space so that the real one can flow in.

Even when it was hard, I kept that belief alive — that somewhere out there, the real thing existed. And when it finally came, it didn’t feel forced. It didn’t ask me to shrink myself or compromise who I was.

It just fit.

It was unity, teamwork, flow.

So yeah, going through the wrong ones isn’t the end of the world.

It shapes you.

It teaches you discernment.

It makes you wiser.

What matters is that you never give up on love itself — because if you keep going, and you stay true to that belief, the real one finds you.

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