Love as the Greatest Success Story: How I Found My Soulmate and Everything Changed

Three different A'Zhorai types - Vey (white), Blue, and Green. All have the same uniform, diamond-like, multi-geometric shape.

These solid blue and green A'Zhorai have been appearing lately where the love has been heightened

They are breathtaking to witness

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JR Prudence:

Okay, so I believe I can finally tell this story — the greatest success story I have — which has always been about finding love: the love of my life, who we now know as Danielle, a.k.a. Mrs. Prudence. The story of how I found her was truly epic and inspiring, and today I’d like to share it.

First and foremost, if anyone looks up my name online and checks the books I’ve made, you’ll probably see a projected image of myself and what appears to be Danielle as well. But back then, Danielle didn’t exist in my life. At that time, she was just a figment of imagination — an idea, an apparition. The reality is that it starts as a whisper. It starts as intuition. It starts as something abstract, just an idea, before it manifests into reality.

In 2010, when I saw the A’Zhorai as the flying saucers, three things came to me:

1. Find out the true nature of God (and by extension, what “aliens” really are).

2. Find the love of my life.

3. Write books about it.

I set out to do that — and I did manage to accomplish those goals. However, while it’s easy now to say I have these things and to look at the success I have today (which I’m still settling into and making peace with), the reality is that the path was extremely hard. Today, I’m not going too deep into the NHI section because I’ve said plenty on that for the past few months. Instead, I want to draw the correlation: how NHI, God, and soulmates — love — all tie together. Of course they tie together, because all of it is about love ultimately.

Every time I saw the A’Zhorai, every time I dealt with real NHI, there was a heavenly, divine, spiritual love present. That love felt like the Spirit of God and therefore was naturally related to God. From that, it was also related to a soulmate — because if it’s truly your soulmate, you’re going to feel the Spirit of God.

A lot of people need to understand that fleeting love is not the same as soulmate love. The whole “twin flame” industry has clouded this — that’s true. Real love is when you actually feel the Spirit of God: the power, the energy, the comfort, the stability, and the peace. However you define God is up to you. I use “God” as the force that allows all existence to be. That is what love fundamentally is.

Love IS GOD.

So if I, or anyone else, says, "I am GOD," then it's the same as saying, "I am LOVE" in my book.

I embodied that love as a vision — a dream of finding my soulmate. I happened to know her hair color and where she was. Not only that, but I do have psychic gifts and abilities — people might call it prophetic or visionary — though I don’t like using those words anymore because of the stigma around spirituality. Regardless, love as a primordial force that animates existence is real. That’s what I follow. My story is, in fact, a love story, and that’s why love has always been a big deal here. It’s inseparable from this work.

We’ve said before that divinity and NHI are inseparable. Now I’m saying love and true NHI — the presence of the Spirit of God and LOVE — are inseparable as well. This is why my wife is deeply involved in this operation, even if she isn’t always in the forefront. Without that love, there would be no JRP. JRP was born because love gave me the confidence to say, “If I can find my soulmate after fifteen years — really, my whole life — then I can do anything.” That courage and motivation helped me reconnect with NHI and understand them again.

And that’s exactly what happened.

But reaching my wife was not easy. I lost a lot. I had to leave Florida where I grew up. My mom died in 2011. My father died a few years later. In 2014, I lost friends. People I loved literally died. I lost a lot of family. It was loss after loss after loss. The vision of my wife became a beacon of hope in the storm.

I went through radical self-help courses and spiritualism. I tried the over-enthused, almost solipsistic mindset of “it’s all your thoughts.” I grinded through all of that ideological nonsense too; the type where the author says all psychologists are wrong and they magically have better answers. But the truth is: if you really want to find love, you cannot be hyper-independent, nor live according to such radical self-centered ideologies. Hyper-independence is insecurity formed by loss. At best, it's a coping mechanism perfect for hurt adult children.

You also have to be careful with romance and seduction guides written by people who don’t have true love — people who are in pain and use coping philosophies to manage that pain. Be mindful of who you’re taking advice from. Do you want marriage advice from someone divorced after two months or someone bitter about marriage who never wanted it? Do you want relationship advice from people partying drinking their tails off every night? Do you want advice from people who became sexist because of prior hurt and blames the entire gender?

Pay attention to the source.

I passed through all those voices and felt no completion. The guides, gurus, self-help artists, and listicles felt lifeless, vague, arbitrary, and specific to circumstances that weren’t mine. That’s one of the greatest dangers with “love guides”: many writers lack the versatility to think beyond their own experience, and the result becomes a formula you’re expected to follow.

Even for us — despite having true love — my wife and I realized that you can’t really write a definitive guide to this. Sure, there are green flags: mutual respect, compassion, care; being independent enough to stand strong as a partner while still being a team player. Many relationships devolve into ego contests or career scorecards and stop being a team. I could list all the green flags, and you could check every one, and the spark still might not be there — because true love isn’t just a checklist.

I can tell you directly that true love has done more healing for me — and for some people I’ve seen — than any self-help book or therapy ever did. Love is not something everyone actually knows. People mistake obsession or trauma-bonding for love. Love isn’t always “yes.” Sometimes love says “no,” to protect what matters. Love is inherently spiritual, and I don’t think one reaches true love without some spiritual grounding — whatever your path is.

I went through a lot to get to my wife. As a man, you often hear it’s women who care most about finding love, but I was an outlier. I could enjoy UFC, mixed martial arts, and very masculine eras with childhood friends — and still, love was the most important thing to me.

Side note: I think love matters more to men than many admit.

When my mom died, when my father died, when I had nothing and lost hope, I saw a vision of her — her beautiful blonde hair, her face, and a sense of “the north.” It wasn’t because of a blonde fetish; when I was younger I actually liked dark-haired goth girls. But that wasn’t it for me. The visions kept returning of my true love, not lust and not "types." They freed me — from cults, from idiotic ideologies, from political nonsense and hate. That is why love is central to JRP. This whole write-up is a reminder of that. Every hardship was worth it.

I’m not here to recommend my path. Honestly, it was extremely difficult. It’s easy to look at me now — filming NHI, with the love of my life — and miss the cost. I lost everything: a 14-year career, friends, family, and loved ones. People straight up died. Over and over again. I was abandoned not by intent but by sheer unluckiness in my early life, losing many whom I cared about. The best thing I can offer isn’t a “teaching” — the word has been abused — but a simple piece of wisdom: go after your heart.

Maybe for you that’s not a relationship. Maybe it’s a kind of freedom, or travel, or a calling. But it’s about following your heart. For me, it was finding the love of my life. When I finally found Danielle — after never giving up — many things healed on their own without try-harding.

All the experiences with the flying saucers, all the NHI encounters from childhood — they started to make sense. I gained a clarity I’d never had. Sometimes, when you’re single and longing or in an unfulfilling relationship, you dive deep into spirituality, mysticism, philosophy, intellectualism, or scientific inquiry to fill that missing void. None of that is automatically bad, but it can become a substitute for what’s missing in life. I went through all of it — the highest and lowest steps of intrigue, science, logic, philosophy, theology, spirituality, and critical thinking — and it can make you callous, cold, and disconnected if you don't watch your step. That stuff, frankly, still wasn’t the answer.

I say this as someone with a background in science, mathematics, and programming. I created my own game. I ran an MMORPG server. I built a company. I’ve had bestsellers. I was a professional gamer. I traveled the world. I’m experienced and cultured. But none of it mattered if I had no one to celebrate it with. Achievements without love felt empty.

The whole idea of NHI is that we’re not alone, right? You see how that relates to relationships.

Even with NHI now — it is a relationship.

That’s what it is.

Sometimes people approach NHI with cold or trauma-based curiosity — more to escape their partners, jobs, or lives than to understand what real NHI are interested in: a genuine relationship. Not romance — don’t twist my words into humanization and longing fantasies — but respect and communion. They’re not seeking to be investigated or strapped to tables. And the same is true with love. That’s why these topics are related. They were always related.

No matter the hardship I faced, finding the love of my life got me out of everything. That’s what worked for me. I’m not saying my path is for everyone. It worked for me and my wife because she wanted the same thing. She saw me in visions too. She saw me in media and channeling in her own ways.

Because we both wanted it — that shared dream — we became the best versions of ourselves: physically, mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and in our work. Your true soulmate won’t fight your life path; they harmonize with it. It doesn’t matter how weird or out-of-the-woods your path is — your true soulmate will be along that path.

I know some of you are going through relationship difficulties. I’m not here to gloat. I went through brutal heartbreaks too. I didn’t have “young love.” I had to grow up fast, especially with my parents dying early. I didn’t get lucky when I was young. I wrestled with the thoughts: Will I ever find the one? Will I have kids? Will I even get to be intimate with someone I truly love? The loneliness, the longings — it sucked and I'd never wish my early life upon anyone.

It’s easy to look at our pictures now and think, “They’re a happy couple.” We are — but the journey was painful and full of loss. What we have today took decades of never giving up. Even when people said, “It’s just an idea in your head,” or “There’s no such thing as soulmates,” I refused to give up. I went through the fire to get here.

I’m not recommending needless suffering. But if you’re strong, courageous, and willing to never give up, do it — follow your heart — and it can end well. Be prepared to tough out very difficult times. That’s what I did.

Love is so powerful that it doesn’t matter how dark it gets; it will show you the way.

To those in the right relationships: congratulations — keep sustaining it.

To those not in one, or searching, or not interested right now: follow your heart. It’s all about love. And that’s why this topic relates today. Real NHI and the real divine Aligned are one with love. They always were.

That is my greatest success story.

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