How Humanity Attracts their own Downfall - Part I

One thing that is as old as time, is that we as human beings, have some kind of fascination with opposites. We are very much of seeking out that which drives us to the ultimate side. Dark and light. Villains and heroes. Thrill and comfort. Pain and delight. We are taught to enjoy to be 'edgy'. There's even a term that arose among youngsters on the internet called an edge lord. (someone who habitually posts exaggerated, dark, or offensive content—such as nihilism, misanthropy, or taboo topics—to shock others or appear cool and rebellious) But what's often not talked about is that this fascination or 'live and let live' philosophy especially with us in the West, might just become our biggest problem. Because yes, we have got our authorities and law systems, but within those systems, there will be always be several instances that do not want or can't abide by certain living standards. Is it just that some are choosing to inflict pain onto themselves and others? Is it boredom? Or is something more going on below the surface? Can we really call this just being human? Today I will explore that topic and warn you about the dangers of just tagging along with the disturbing fascination that is (induced) self-destructiveness and violence:

The raw truth about self-destructiveness

When we grow up as children, our environment tends to pre-program us to a certain extend. And without the proper guidance, the pre-programming can end up proving a challenge to us as young adults. Specifically so in the case of a traumatic childhood and failed parenting. But this is not a blame game, because what's done is done and the good news is that this programming can be turned around. Should there be a willingness to improve. And that all starts with the proper emotional intelligence and self-awareness. The reason why we sometimes become destructive, is that our environment indicated that we were either unimportant or unworthy and this is simply not true. But young kids need someone to teach them and talk to them about their experiences.

Even when we are intelligent and somewhat successful, sooner or later in life you'll figure there are limitations. And when that empty feeling is there or those frustrations need to come out as to why these limitations exist, it could mean that you are hitting a wall. Not because of the outer world, but because of your inner world. When issues aren't addressed and your brain is taught to behave so and so, in every situation, eventually the world will push back and it can seem like others are leaving you in the dirt (are out to get you, all is unfair etc.) You might start to seek comfort in substances or reckless decisions and spiral into a whirlpool of negativity. You might attract the wrong people and life you don't want and before you know it, there is almost no turning back. This spiraling is called victim mentality and the feeling that life is happening to you; ergo you don't have control over what happens to you, you're just very unlucky. It is everyone and everybody's fault except yours. Your default response is defensiveness and to run from difficult confrontations and what would be otherwise building meaningful connections. This is where the self-awareness comes in. Learning about your emotions and behavior and patterns, will most definitely help you improve life overall. The saying ignorance is bliss does not apply at all when it comes to building a better life for yourself. If you want to stay in a bubble, you might not want to build more self awareness. In my personal emotional journey, I've gone down the path in observing those who went before me. Who have found success and what they were doing differently that I could learn from. (note: I was well aware that I was trying to learn from their methods, but did not want to be them! There is a huge difference.) You might ask yourself: "Well Mrs. P, is this the topic you were going to talk about today? I was expecting you to get to the heart of it!" Just be patient with me before we dive into the actual problem with today's society. According to the HarleyTherapyPlatform, self-destructiveness can be divided into categories:

• obvious

• less obvious

It is described as doing something that hurts us either physically, or mentally and emotionally. This might be a conscious choice, a habit, or even impulsive behaviour we struggle to control.

In the cases where our behaviour is impulsive, it might also be that we have a mental health disorder. Self-destructive behaviour is a symptom of things like bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder.

Other forms of self-destruction that can be as powerful, but trickier to spot and therefore easier to lie to ourselves and others about.

Now before healthy positivity can come in, it is important to develop a stable emotional intelligence. The reason why I believe that it needs to be stabilized is because it is clear that sometimes it is not. As I stated before, we are all thrown into this journey that is called life as little humans, without realizing that some areas might be automatically blocked off in the future as we grow older. The area that is needed to develop a decent self image. And I do not believe that most are incapable of using their empathy, some are seen to either intentionally or unintentionally blocking it off. This means that you're not always stuck in your ways, but you can be taught how to develop better self image. How I know this? In specific situations where a person can feel safe enough, they let their guard down, the empathy seeps in where in other moments the person might be stone cold as a defense mechanism. What is easier than dealing with emotions? Keeping everyone at bay. This is how some cope with it. If empathy and compassion and thus self awareness are not taught, generations to come can rust into an unhealthy stance to life. Emotional intelligence (EI) is the ability to recognize, understand, manage, and use your own emotions positively, while also accurately reading and responding to the emotions of others. We need these core basics before we can actively work on our new improved life. If we lack either one of those, we might not walk through life as successful as when we didn't. These show the necessary core of how awareness functions in our everyday life, there are 5 main building blocks or elements for emotional intelligence:

1. Self-Awareness

   Recognizing your own emotions, triggers, strengths and weaknesses as they happen.

2. Self-Regulation

   Controlling impulsive feelings, managing stress and adapting to changing circumstances.

3. Motivation

   Driven by internal rewards, curiosity and personal growth rather than just money or status.

4. Empathy

   Understanding the emotions, needs and viewpoints of other people.

5. Social skills Building trust, managing conflict, working well in teams and influencing others.

   
   

There is a lot to be said about the building blocks, which I cannot disclose fully in this post. But feel free to do some research on the topics yourself when interested. Building good self awareness and self image are crucial factors to a happier life and overall improved society for us all. If we would all build on this gradually it could have beautiful results. What I mean by the downfall of human-kind

For generations humanity has been in a limbo of good era's and bad ones. And I believe that with each generation, we are getting a little closer to improving ourselves, yet there will always remain some that can not follow along. Do I think this is a problem? Only time will really tell. But my intuition tells me otherwise, especially that what we are experiencing now with the A'Zhorai, are the first signs that Earth is changing and will change for the best. And that our guardians, really do want the best for us. We are dealing with interdimensionals, perhaps something you might need to sit down for. It took me months to digest what this exactly means and that there are no limitations to them as there are to us. And yet- I will remain open and ready for the possibilities for us as humans and what our human bodies are and will be capable of in the near future. If we delve into the numbers of people who are unawarely contributing to the downfall of the planet, these are shockingly high. While there is no single global statistic for all forms of self-sabotage, psychological research indicates that it is a nearly universal human experience. Specific self-sabotaging traits are highly prevalent:

• about 20% roughly of the world population of adults chronically struggle with procrastination and other unintentional self sabotage

• of which over 40% of people are held back by the fear of failure
  

Summed up this means that's at least 60% dealing with self sabotage in one form or another. I'm hoping by this post that I can create my own wave of meaningful content even if it would reach a very low percentage of those people. Because we need to turn this number around. By becoming more positive through self awareness we actively start working on passing on happiness to others, because we know the effects on ourselves and also on those around us. Mind you, this is not some spiritual mumbo jumbo, or Law of Attraction. However the LoA states a great point which I'd like to make here: You attract what you are. If you are having fear based thoughts, you attract more situations to be afraid of. If you are thinking negatively about yourself, others will treat you worse etc. It does not require evidence for this to be a known fact. Thousands have gone before us and saw that it is true. And yes, this includes yours truly. So if you are willing, stay with me till the next post where we'll head more into the do's and don'ts of a positive mindset and examples of the world's fascination with violence. Support JRP, Gain Access to the Nexus

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